How to begin?

I heard that getting married, getting a divorce, changing job, moving house and having a baby are the most unsettling things one can do in a lifetime. Well, except procreating, I did all of them in the last 6 months.

I was told to be able to move on, I need to "learn to love myself" - I have heard this phrase so many times, this is what most Netflix originals seem to preach. "Loving" oneself is apparently the key to eternal happiness....so this is what am trying to do.....learning how to love my very imperfect being.